It is with great sadness that we share the passing of fellow dancer, Tony O'Connell.
Tony had a quiet and gentle grace and craic about him that is hard to describe. It was always a joy to dance and spend time with him. He will be missed.
We extend our deepest condolences to the O'Connell family.
Anthony (Tony) O'Connell
Anthony Jude “Tony” O’Connell of North Aurora, IL passed away on February 26, 2026 at Avantara Aurora. He was born on October 10, 1957, in Dublin, Ireland to Anthony and Philomena “Phyllis” O’Connell.
He took evening classes at Loyola University, Chicago for 10 years to earn his Bachelor’s degree in computer science. Over the years, he was employed at Rush-Presbyterian Medical Center, Blue Cross Blue Shield, and Northwestern Mutual Insurance until his retirement in March 2025.
Tony was a dog lover, an avid fan of Premier League soccer, an enthusiastic traveler, and a musician. His specialty was Irish traditional music, and he enjoyed playing both keyboards and button accordion. He was always happiest when he was playing music with his friends.
Tony is survived by his wife of 43 years, Jo Gengler; his sister-in-law Kris Keef of Montgomery, IL; his brother-in-law Tom Gengler of Chicago, IL; his dog Roxy, and his many friends both here and in Ireland. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother-in-law Jerry Keef.
Thanks to Avantara Aurora and Suncrest Hospice for their kindness and care. Special thanks to Joe Martin, Patrice Macken, Cathy Grafton, and the entire Irish music community for their love, help and support over the past several weeks.
A Celebration of Life will be scheduled at a later date.
Arrangements entrusted to THE DALEIDEN MORTUARY, 220 North Lake Street, Aurora, Illinois 60506. 630-631-5500
Click here for Tony's obituary
Celebration of TONY O’CONNELL’S Life - INVITATION
Sunday, April 19, 2026, 1:00 - 3:00 pm
The Irish Legend Pub, 8933 Archer Ave, Willow Springs, IL
We all miss Tony. Musicians would say he brought “lift” to people wherever he went. He touched us by his kindness, humor, wisdom, and devotion to joy for people with Irish music and dance.
To help us plan the celebration, please RSVP to Joe Martin by April 12 (224-698-9252 or
Of course there will be a session! Please bring your instruments, voices, dancing shoes, and tapping feet! You’ll enjoy a buffet and beverages along with music and conversations.
For questions, please contact the coordinators for the celebration: Patrice Macken at
We hope you can join the celebration.
